At 22, Romaine Chan made a deliberate choice to embrace singlehood during her twenties, shifting focus from seeking a romantic partner to building a meaningful life on her own terms. She found freedom in solitude after stopping the pursuit of love, which helped ease her fear of being alone. As an undergraduate in Singapore, she prioritizes personal growth, career ambitions, and self-discovery over the pressures of modern dating. Her journey reflects a growing trend among young women who are redefining success beyond relationships.
This reflection is part of CNA Women’s series exploring the experiences of single women navigating love and independence in contemporary society. Romaine emphasizes that choosing to stay single isn’t about rejecting romance, but about creating a fulfilling life first. By investing in her education, passions, and mental well-being, she believes she’s laying a stronger foundation for future relationships—should they come. Her story highlights how self-empowerment can take precedence over societal expectations.